Dear Dads, It seems crazy to think that just two weeks ago life was relatively normal. Now, it seems that everything has changed. There is a lot of uncertainty and if you’re like me, you’re still not entirely sure what is going on. There is a lot that we are all going through and a lot that we all need encouragement in right now, but with this letter I want to encourage you to do one thing: lead on Sunday morning in your home. Covid-19 is and will continue to be disruptive and hard. But in every difficulty there is opportunity. God meant it when he had Paul pen the words of Romans 8:28, “And we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.” The reality of “church at home” is probably going to be a reality for the foreseeable future. Our church leaders and pastors are doing a great job creating online content that can help us through this time. And while it's good to sit down in front of the TV or computer screen and watch and listen as a family, there is an amazing opportunity to step up and lead your family in being the church, in actively doing church at home. Jesus told us that “where two or three gather in my name, there am I with them.” Gather your family in the name of Jesus. Lead them in prayer and worship and in fellowship. This is an opportunity to teach your children to seek the face of Jesus, to model for them prayer and worship and what it looks like to be a man of God who looks to actively apply the teachings of Jesus. Help them learn to actively apply the teaching of Jesus in their lives. There is a simple format that can be followed that will help you lead your family. Divide your Sunday morning as a family into three thirds. Looking Back CARE: The first third of your time can be focused on caring for one another and worship. Start by praying for your time together and then ask two simple questions and allow everyone to share about how their week went.
After everyone has shared, invite your wife and kids to join you in praising God for the things that are going well and to pray for one another about the needs that were expressed. WORSHIP: Lead your family into a time of worship. Some of us are musically gifted, but for the rest of us this may mean asking your kids what their favorite worship songs are and finding them on Youtube to listen to or sing along with. It may be an opportunity to read some of the Psalms together. Regardless of what this looks like at your home, have fun worshiping the Lord together. If you have young kids, let them beat spoons on a pan or dance as they worship. CAST VISION: Is there a verse that has been particularly meaningful to you this week? Is there an area you are hoping you and your family can grow in? Take a moment to cast some vision for the things that God is putting on your heart for your family. Share a verse from the Bible to encourage your family in the way you know they need to be encouraged. Looking Up The second third of your time together can be spent looking into the word of God together. Acts 2:42 paints a picture of the early church saying "that they devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer." This is the time to learn from the word of God. This would be a great time to tune into your church’s online service to listen together to your pastor’s message for the week. You could also use the SWORD method to lead your family in discovery Bible study, helping teach your kids how to dig into God’s word for themselves. Together you will learn what Jesus has for each of you in a particular passage of scripture. [learn about discovery Bible study] Regardless, this second third is a time to dedicate to studying the Bible. Looking Ahead The final third of your time together should be spent looking ahead to the week to come. It is a time to plan together how you can apply what you’ve learned and be a blessing to others in the coming week. A few simple questions for this time are:
After you have discussed these as a family, ask your kids to hold you accountable to actually do the things you’ve said you would do. End your time together by praying for your family. Then enjoy a great meal together! Covid-19 is going to be a life changing event for all of us. But as fathers we have an opportunity to step in and lead our families into a deeper place of faith and following. Imagine if our kids look back at this time and remember most of all that their dad led them closer to Jesus! May it be!
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Covid-19 is an unprecedented world event that is unlike anything anyone now living has ever seen. It has interrupted life. It has caused hardship. And if the Surgeon General is correct, it's going to get worse. As followers of Jesus there is much that we can and will do in the coming weeks and perhaps months to be His hands and feet, to demonstrate His love, to share the truth and hope of the Gospel. But the most important thing we can do, is to abide in him. Last week I sent an email out to a number of pastor friends asking if there were any specific ways I could be praying. As responses came in it became increasingly apparent that these leaders were stepping into uncharted waters. Life was getting crazy as they tried to figure out what to do about Sunday morning services, how to shepherd well despite social distancing and how to care for their own families. And of course it's not just pastors. Everyone is struggling to make heads or tails of our current situation. Across the globe the Coronavirus is wreaking havoc. And so more than ever before, as the people of God we must turn to Jesus for guidance and help, and according to Jesus in John 15, we have only two choices:
And so with today's article we want to share a three resources that we have found helpful to help disciples abide in Christ. Cornerstone Reading Plan: Any reading plan will do as long as it gets you reading the word of God. This particular plan will have you read four chapters a day and allow you to immerse yourself in the whole story of the Bible. S.O.A.P.S Bible Reading: As you are reading the Bible, the S.O.A.P.S reading tool will help you to interact with the word, obey it and share with others. Prayer Wheel: The prayer wheel will give you a process to pray for one hour, five minutes at a time, prayerfully interacting with God in a number of ways. This particular resource is a pdf with three bookmarks so be sure and share it with a couple of friends as well. There are many helpful resources to help us abide in Christ. But above any particular resource, we must follow the example of Jesus who often withdrew to lonely places to be with the Father. A few weeks after our last conversation, I returned to Ahmed’s store to say hello, grab some more Kenyan tea and see what God had in store for our next interaction. Sometimes we just chit chat but increasingly, Ahmed was turning our conversations to the major stumbling blocks to faith that most Muslims face. After our customary greetings and small talk, Ahmed again looked thoughtful. “You know what, I saw a movie the other day. Some guy was giving them out at the park and I took it home. I watched most of it. It was called 'The Passion'.” I wasn’t sure what he would think of the movie so I asked, “What did you think of the movie?” He smiled, “Oh it was a really interesting movie. Jesus’ life is very compelling. He lived such a beautiful life. I really love Jesus.” He really loved Jesus? I’d not heard Ahmed talk quite so openly about Jesus before. “Wow. It’s really great to hear you say that. It sounds like you are beginning to understand why Jesus is so important to me.” I replied. Ali looked a little surprised. “Well, I’ve always known he is important. He lived a perfect life. He did miracles. And he will come back on the last day. Jesus is one of God’s greatest prophets.” He paused then and took a deep breath as if he were about to tell me some really bad news. “It’s just that the movie got a few things wrong.” I didn’t know exactly where he was going so I said, “Hmmm. Like what?” It was the best I could do at the time but it was enough to give Ahmed the floor. He would tell me what. “Well, to start with, Jesus did not die on the cross. God would never allow his prophet to be treated that way. According to the Quran, God caused someone else, most likely Judas, to look like Jesus and die instead of him. Jesus was taken up to heaven without dying. Sura 4:157 says, “That they said (in boast), "We killed Christ Jesus the son of Mary, the Messenger of Allah";- but they killed him not, nor crucified him, but so it was made to appear to them, and those who differ therein are full of doubts, with no (certain) knowledge, but only conjecture to follow, for of a surety they killed him not:” So you see my friend, Jesus did not die on the cross.” How would you respond to Ahmed? The Muslim Perspective The Quran teaches pretty clearly that Jesus did not die on the cross, but that another was crucified in his place and that Jesus was then taken directly up to heaven. Within Islam there are a number of theories about who was placed on the cross in Christs place. These include Peter, Judas, a Roman soldier, a Jewish bystander and in some minority opinions, the swoon theory is accepted. Most Muslims believe that the prophets of God in the Koran must win and be victorious. Muhammad defeated the enemies of Islam and destroyed the idols in the Ka’ba. So Jesus could not have been subjected to beating, humiliation and death. Like the post we shared last week and the week before, I’ll share a few helpful thoughts and then allow some of the experts in this to take over the heavy lifting in the articles, books and talks shared below. A Few Thoughts We don’t need to argue with our Muslim friends, but we can start by asking what I’ll call “Pebble Questions". A pebble question is a question that forces someone to consider something that will stick with them, like a pebble in their shoe. These create opportunities through which the Holy Spirit can begin to work. You’ll find this pattern familiar, but a good place to start is with three responses. The three ways to respond are once again:
Here are three simple questions that will hopefully create a pebble in their thinking about the cross. Theological Response: What glorifies God more? To help Jesus escape death or for Jesus to conquer death? Logical Response: Would you be willing to die for something that you absolutely knew was a lie? Historical Response: Have you ever read what historians in the first century wrote about the Crucifixion? Unpacking The Questions The theological response challenges our Muslim friends' belief that God is great. Saving Jesus through trickery doesn’t give glory to God or show his power nearly as much as stepping into the teeth of death and defeating it. The logical response forces our Muslim friends to see the Biblical story in light of human nature. Human nature is bent toward self-preservation. It is one thing to die for something you absolutely believe in. ISIS and Al Qaeda suicide bombers do that. But if the Quranic story is true, then the disciples and hundreds of others who claimed that Jesus was raised from the dead would have all known with absolute certainty that the resurrection was a lie. Human nature is bent toward self-preservation and yet they all willingly died violent deaths to perpetuate that lie. Maybe one person would do this. There is no logical way that the story of the resurrection would have been sustained in the heat of such intense persecution and murder if the early followers of Jesus all knew it to be a lie. The historical response allows us the opportunity to invite our Muslim friends to simple explore what the historical record says. Non-Christian sources like Tacitus and Josephus speak of the crucifixion. The historical record of the Crucifixion is so strong that even Reza Aslan, an Iranian Muslim and author of the book Zealot, agrees that one thing we can know for sure about Jesus is that he was killed by the Romans. We'll end this article with the same few paragraphs that we ended with last week. The first and last thing we should do as we discuss the Crucifixion and resurrection with our Muslim friends is to pray and fast. Intellectual assent is rarely enough for a journey to faith. "No one comes to Jesus but that the Father who sent him draws them (John 6:44)." Salvation is always a work of the Holy Spirit. Remember, "The god of this age has blinded the minds of unbelievers, so that they cannot see the light of the gospel that displays the glory of Christ, who is the image of God (2 Corinthians 4:4)." We must pray that the blinders be removed! As a final word, "honor Christ the Lord in your hearts as holy, always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect (1 Peter 3:15). Walk in wisdom toward outsiders, making the best use of the time. Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person (Colossians 4:5-6). Each person. Our Muslim friends are people. They are not arguments to be defeated. They are people to be loved and the Father is drawing them to himself. The following articles, videos and books are resources I've found helpful as I prepare to give a reason for believing in the Crucifixion, and the resurrection of Christ. Articles
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Videos My good friend Ali and I had been meeting regularly to share tea and discuss life. No topic was off-limits. In fact, the very subjects I’d been taught to avoid—politics and religion—were often the starting points of our conversations. Recently, our discussions had taken a deeper turn, exploring the nature of Christianity and Islam, and I was looking forward to continuing them. As I stepped into Starbucks, Ali greeted me with his usual warm smile. We ordered our drinks—his chai latte and my black coffee—and settled into a corner table. Ali grinned as he sat down. “Shall we continue our discussion on Christianity and Islam?” I was still trying to figure Ali out. He was curious about other religions, especially Christianity, yet he also seemed to simply enjoy discussing ideas. He—and his friends when they joined us—reminded me of the Athenians in Acts 17 who “spent their time doing nothing but talking about and listening to the latest ideas.” I wasn’t sure if he was genuinely seeking truth or just relishing intellectual debate. But I pressed on, trusting that the Holy Spirit was at work. Grinning back, I unzipped my backpack and said, “That sounds great. In fact, I brought my Bible with me and wanted to share a few verses that are central to my faith. I’d love to hear your thoughts.” Ali took a sip of his tea. “That would be interesting. I guess I could tell you what I think.” “Good. The first verse is from the book of John in the New Testament. It says—” Ali cut in before I could continue. “Wait a minute. What is the book of John? Jesus’ book is the Injeel.” I realized I needed to clarify. “Oh, yes. John is one of the four biographies of Jesus and is part of the Injeel. We Christians call the Injeel the New Testament.” A look of concern crossed Ali’s face. He spoke carefully. “Hmmm. I don’t want to offend you, Aaron, but this only confirms what I’ve always been taught. We Muslims believe that Allah gave Isa—you call him Jesus—the Injeel. He gave it because the Tawrat given to Moses was corrupted by the Jews. Then, the Zebur—what you call the Psalms—was also changed. Finally, God gave the Injeel to Jesus, but, I’m sorry to say this, Aaron, Christians corrupted it as well. What you have there, your Bible, is not really God’s book but a distorted version of the Injeel. Thankfully, in His mercy, God sent the Holy Quran to the Prophet Mohammed—peace be upon him—and it is incorruptible.” How would you answer Ali? Most Muslims believe the Bible has been altered. This belief is deeply ingrained, passed down through generations, and reinforced by religious leaders. However, few Muslims can provide specific details on when, how, or why they believe these changes occurred. The assumption is that Jews and Christians altered the scriptures to distort their true meaning. Like last week, I’ll offer some simple ways to respond, but I encourage you to dive deeper into the resources listed below. Developing a strong understanding of these issues will better equip you to engage with your Muslim friends in meaningful dialogue. A Few Thoughts This is a crucial conversation to have with Muslim friends. Almost all objections to Christianity eventually tie back to the reliability of the Bible. If the Bible has been preserved and remains unchanged, then key Christian doctrines—such as the divine nature of Christ, the Crucifixion, and atonement—stand firm. If, however, the Bible is unreliable, then these doctrines lose their foundation. Here are three ways to respond to the claim that the Bible has been corrupted. These points are adapted from Fouad Masri’s “Is the Injeel Corrupted?” and are explored in greater detail in the resources below: 1. Theological Response
2. Logical ResponseIf the Bible was changed, then certain critical questions must be answered:
3. Historical ResponseThere is overwhelming historical evidence affirming the integrity of the Bible. Nearly all historians—secular and religious—agree that the Bible we have today is the same as it was in the first century. Manuscript evidence, archaeological findings, and textual studies all support this claim. These three approaches can help your Muslim friends wrestle with the assumption that the Bible has been changed. The goal is not to win an argument but to plant seeds of doubt about the reliability of what they’ve been taught. The Holy Spirit can use these moments to lead them toward truth. Prayer: The First and Last Step As we engage in these discussions, we must remember that intellectual arguments alone rarely lead to faith. Jesus Himself said, “No one can come to me unless the Father who sent me draws them” (John 6:44). Salvation is ultimately a work of the Holy Spirit. Paul reminds us, “The god of this age has blinded the minds of unbelievers, so that they cannot see the light of the gospel that displays the glory of Christ, who is the image of God” (2 Corinthians 4:4). Our role is to pray that these blinders be removed. Lastly, let’s approach every conversation with humility and love. As 1 Peter 3:15 exhorts us: “Honor Christ the Lord in your hearts as holy, always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect.” And as Paul writes in Colossians 4:5-6: “Walk in wisdom toward outsiders, making the best use of the time. Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer each person.” Each person. Our Muslim friends are not arguments to be won but people to be loved. God is drawing them to Himself, and we have the privilege of walking alongside them on this journey. Below, you’ll find articles, videos, and books that I’ve found helpful in preparing to discuss the trustworthiness of the Bible. I encourage you to explore them and deepen your understanding so that you can engage with both confidence and compassion. Helpful Articles:
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Helpful Videos and Interviews: Andy's excellent talk starts at the 8 minute mark. Lots of information on the Quranic witness to the validity of the Bible. |
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